Is it over for me
Or over for you?

Is it just beginning
Or actually unchanged?

Are they acting like it is done
Are we still carrying on?

Are they judging me
Or am I the critic and expert?

Are they emotional
Hysterical and illogical

Are we clear and sensible,
Behaving well?

Are they strong and noble,
Am I weak and futile?

Can we compare grief
Will your sorrow trump?

Are we in this together
Or finding our own way?