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Dec 13, 2006 - 08:03 AM
 
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Re: Sex for 1 (Score: 1)
by Alice (-)
on Jan 10, 2005 - 08:52 PM
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Crossing the Line: As I said previously, I think that a relationship is lustful only when you are in it only or mainly for the sex. I think it is pretty easy to tell whether or not you are in such a relationship.

Attraction: While I agree that we have no control over who we find physically attractive, I think, as Midge said, that we can control our thoughts to the extent that we can choose not to nurture or cultivate certain thoughts. For example: I knew that I found one of my friends physically attractive and that I could very easily start to fancy him. However, because I thought that he was interested in someone else, I refused to allow myself to dwell on 'sexual/romantic' thoughts of him. (As it turned out, he fancied me and we are now engaged, but my point still stands...we were platonic friends for a long time before he admitted that he was attracted to me, at which point I allowed myself to start fancying him).

Masturbation: Sorry if this is 'too much information'...I remember masturbating when I was 4, at which age I didn't even know such a thing as 'sex' existed, so I can't have been lusting. I still think it is possible to derive enjoyment through touching yourself without lust. Who knows, maybe boys find it more difficult...


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